the worst date in history...

I used to be a HUGE player.

I mean I still am,

But I used to be too.

But there was one girl that really fucked with my head. Even to this day.

My best friend and I were in the best nightclub in our city, and we were sitting in a small seating area near the dance floor.

We were sitting down scoping out the place to see who we should approach.

I personally have a weak spot for Latinas, and two Latinas walk up out of nowhere and enter our general area.

One of them is the sexiest girl I’ve ever seen, and the other one is just kind of normal.

I look over at my friend and say:

“I’m going in.”

Long story short it ended up working. We danced together all night while her friend and mine did the same.

But that's not the point of this story.

It was the next few months that were the problem.

You see, at this point in my life, I thought I was the shit and could get any girl I wanted.

I got a lot of girls but I could never make them stay, and deep down this bothered me.

Kinda like I didn't deserve it or something.

After that night, me and senorita continued to text and talk.

We would Facetime late at night and she would say how much she wanted me to come visit. (We lived about 1 hour and 45 mins from each other at the time.)

The problem I had was a false sense of confidence, I over-invested into this one girl.

She would have been the hottest girl I had ever been with, and I REALLY wanted it to work out.

So I made some plans to go visit her and got all excited.

I know this makes me sound like a total loser but I think I actually ran around my room celebrating until my mom told me to shut up from the other room.

This was it.

I was going to get what I thought was the girl of my dreams.

So I packed up my car, booked a hotel in her city, and made sure I double-checked to make sure we were on. (I knew we were but I just felt the need to have a fail-safe.)

“Of course, we’re still on, I can't wait to see you.” She said.

Your boy was IN.

In the car on the way there, I thought about the plans and all the stuff we were going to do. Some stuff was wholesome, some stuff wasn't.

But in reality, any man in the world thinks about that stuff on these types of occasions so don't come at me.

I pull into town, get to the hotel, send a message that I arrived, and wait.

I decided to get some food and take a walk so I wasn't just waiting around for this girl seeming desperate.

Hours past,

Nothing.

I decided to have some drinks in a bar to help pass the time.

“She's probably just busy.” I thought.

As hours go by,

I start to get scared. Did I get stood up?

I send the dreaded back-to-back text that is a death sentence 95% of the time.

Nothing.

All that work, all that time and money, all that excitement,

I got stood up.

The reason why I tell you this story is because I have had many girls since then, and none of them have treated me the way that one did.

What this means is,

If a girl really likes you, she'll move mountains to see you.

If she doesn't, she come up with every excuse in the book even if your date was planned 6 months earlier.

ALWAYS watch someone's behavior first.

Because people aren't always transparent.

-Luka Grey

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