how women weed out "low-value" men.

I was walking through the gym the other day, and I something happened.

I live in Costa Rica, so there are absolute stunners all over the place.

I was walking by this lady who was strutting around like the was the most important person in the world.

And to be fair,

She probably was.

I love to meet new people,

So I looked at her, smiled, and tried to be as friendly as I could.

Obviously, if I got some out of it I wouldn’t turn her down,

But that wasn’t the main reason I did it.

For some reason, it felt like when I was passing by her she refused to even accept the fact that I existed.

And for most people, a quick smile at a stranger isn’t really a big deal.

I personally think it's weird when people don’t smile.

But then it hit me.

Isn’t it interesting how gorgeous women refuse to make eye contact with anyone?

It's like their eyes are magnetically repelled by people they don’t know.

It is because they are arrogant?

Maybe.

Is it because they are usually more insecure because they have so much pressure from society to be pretty?

Probably.

But then I thought about it differently:

For us men, we don’t really have anything to fear.

We don’t have a constant barrage of people trying to be our friends because we are pretty.

And when push comes to shove,

We can usually hold our own in combat.

Most women, (especially if they are pretty and feminine)

Don’t possess these skills unless they learned them.

They have to defend themselves in different ways.

For my guys who have studied the arts of seduction,

There is something called “The bitch shield”

It's an unconscious defense mechanism in the mind of women to sift through the low-value men so that they don't waste their time.

I don't recommend changing your whole personality to fit this philosophy on seduction,

But when you zoom out and look at it, it kind of makes sense.

Imagine if you were the most attractive person in every room you walked into since you were 16 years old.

Imagine how many out-of-shape losers say “Soooo what are you into?”

And if you were as pretty as that girl I saw at the gym,

You would probably hear that 1000 times a day if you didn't have a system to weed out the losers.

Those types of women are in the selection position naturally,

They get to pick from the best of the best.

They need to make sure the men they invest in,

Aren’t using some technique.

They want the real deal.

So next time you have a woman be overly aggressive or mean,

Keep in mind that they HAVE to do that.

Because only the men she's interested in,

Would have the confidence to persist.

Because in reality,

She doesn't even know you yet.

But if she's testing you,

I guarantee she would like to.

You just have to prove yourself.

-Luka Grey