unplug from female hatred

Hey bro,

I think I found out why men struggle with dating.

It's weirdly simple. But apparently, most people (me included) just don't get it.

I discovered today that for some reason, deep down, I don't like women. And not in a weird way. I was just taught by my dad that they were dangerous.

I've never seen a successful relationship between my parents, which makes me doubt they exist.

But I have been using an affirmation that has really helped.

"I love gorgeous women"

Sounds silly to say, but the pictures it gives me (which translates to emotions) are the benefits I get from being around beautiful women.

In this day and age, it's very easy to hate women.

They get everything for free, they only choose the best and are ungrateful attention seekers. But anyone would be terrible if you think about them so negatively.

Most of the time, it's a cope.

Men can't get laid, so instead of fixing the problem, they try to change the rules of the game.

Classic denial sequence.

If you can re-frame the way you see women, you can see them from a more positive angle which affects the actions you take towards them.

If every woman is terrible and not to be trusted, why the hell would you talk to them?

Unfortunately, you need to talk to them to get what you want. (we're all men here)

Women have upsides, don't forget them.

Go get 'em! (literally)

-Luka Grey