why people judge you

and how to make them stop

Hey bro,

Want to know the secret to being charismatic? (well, at least one of them)

The secret is to understand that people make decisions automatically. And they don't always have control over the things they think or the conclusions they jump to.

What does this mean?

How you look, is how you are. What people think of you, is what you are.

Because if people never get to know you (most won't) then your image and your first impression are literally all that exists.

This is why you need to focus on your image.

The easiest way to do this is to work on your fashion. Now I am not saying you need to be on the cover of GQ magazine.

But you should at least have 2 outfits that fit you well, and make you look professional.

My personal favorites are plain black, and plain white T-shirts. You can get these from Walmart at a super low cost.

Make sure they fit your body correctly and aren't too tight (makes you look like a douche) or too loose (makes you look like a slob)

Obviously, you should start to buy more clothes and learn about color theory,

But I am a big fan of "done is better than perfect"

Your clothes matter, and people are judging them.

Whether you like it or not.

Go get 'em!

-Luka Grey