the flaking epidemic..

Hey bro,

I have a question:

If you were to rate your dating life from 1-10 what would you rate it?

If you're like most men today, (unfortunately) I'd say it's A LOT lower than you'd like it to be. Here is an "ah-ha" moment I've learned over the last few months.

I live in Costa Rica.

So the women here are a mix of old school feminine, (treating you like a king) and new wave awful ('men ain't shit')

Now I know that sounds negative. But without this mindset, you'll get destroyed.

Here's why:

As a man, dating is active. This means if you don't approach, send messages, or put your balls on the line... You're spending the night alone.

For women, they can sit back, scroll through DM's and still get the cream of the crop.

Recently, I've noticed a pattern with women. (in Costa Rica, Canada and everywhere else I have been.)

It's the epidemic of FLAKING.

This is when you make plans with a woman, and they reschedule last minute or completely disappear into thin air.

If you've been dating for a while, you'll know how annoying this gets.

But I have the solution. And I want to share it with you.

As men, we were taught to believe there is only ONE woman out there for us. This makes it very easy to think the girl you're into is gonna be your wife one day.

But what if she flakes?

You're at home feeling like a total loser.

The way I see it is you should ALWAYS be talking to more than one girl. Why? because this removes the desperation. And if she disappears last minute, you're not disappointed.

Also,

Women (and everyone else on the planet) are competitive. If she knows she's replaceable (just like you) she will usually fight to stay on your radar.

This levels the playing field, which is wildly skewed to women's advantage.

Dudes are simps.

They'll do anything for a shred of female attention. This makes women (the REALLY hot ones) feel untouchable.

And in reality,

They pretty much are. Considering every man she sees worships the ground she walks on.

So what is the cure?

Just like everything in life, dating is a numbers game. You need to talk to more women and develop your skills. This creates an abundance mentality that women can sense. (yes, women have a knack for smelling desperation.)

Also, women ALWAYS have more options. Since they don't have to grind to get dates, they naturally have a "things will work out for me" attitude. Which attracts more people.

Diversify yourself.

And the flaking issue will disappear.

So try that bad boy on for size.

-Luka Grey